I Got Hugged

Let me paint you a picture of tragedy, blessing, and fruit. Micah and I, charged with acquiring the ingredients to concoct a fruit salad large enough to feed fifteen hungry individuals for a St. Patrick’s Day celebration, entered into an unfamiliar domain: the open market. The open market is to be feared by bachelors who know not its ways or prices. We did not pay the situation the respect it deserved, having only discussed said fruit salad at a high level – not near enough preparation for what was to come.

We entered the market and were at once swarmed with large African women who could smell our marital status and ignorance. We would not last long. Micah quickly purchased several apples, one of the more familiar items, for an acceptable price. Under pressure to purchase vegetables, I showed my cards in amateur fashion: “we’re making a fruit salad,” I said. Two more women approached. “Come buy my oranges.” “You need watermelon? You need watermelon!” We made several verbal commitments to view a wide range of fruit as Micah and I attempted to communicate above the commotion of five women competing for our attention. The fact that we were each a head taller than the women helped us … but not much.

We walked down to the mango lady, a short jaunt that took us by the lady selling the oranges. Unhappy that we passed without looking, focused as we were, she grabbed several oranges and mobilized her business, bringing it directly to us. In the meantime, the mango lady had already begun with her sales pitch. “Three for 10,000,” she said. “No, no. You no go less me?,” we responded with our standard response. The “white man price” is generally double what you should probably pay, we always push back for a better price. It’s the expected move in this dance. She easily relents and we end up with four mangos for 7,000 Leones, as she “threw in” an extra mango for free.

I looked at Micah – we were totally lost in the confusion of the moment. Everything was happening so fast. I brought my hands together in a “T” and called a time out, a concept that apparently doesn’t translate across cultures well. We tried to huddle and get control of the situation in vain. In short order we had two pineapples in our bag for 8,000 Leones, seemingly a good deal. Next we purchased the watermelon outright, the seller demanding payment on delivery. Apparently, she was not part of the same fruit cooperative as the other ladies that were allowing us to fill our bag before we paid.

The ladies fulfilled our request for papaya, again “throwing in” a charity fruit. Our bag was full and near ripping. The chief of the fruit co-op gave us the total, which we corrected after adding up the subtotals. Micah handed over 25,000 Leones to a visually ecstatic woman who hugged me. A hug. Something was up. We instantly knew that we had paid way too much. We walked away, thankful that the circus was over and we had fruit. It was fun to experience and was worth the extra couple bucks for the story. We were not too upset that we paid a couple extra bucks. Though we had been taken advantage of, we were able to bless the women. They still smile and wave enthusiastically as we walk past days after the experience. They have fond memories of us.

Bono, Not Sonny

Bono, an Irish musician, addressed several heads of state, including Bushy, on February 2 at the National Prayer Breakfast. If you think it's strange for a musician to address people at an event with the "Prayer" in the title, so did Bono. The speech is quite interesting, challenging, and worth the read.

LINK TO SPEECH

Note: I'm really late on the band wagon here. Everyone and his brother posted a link to this speech over a month ago. I even watched the video before I came to Sierra Leone. But hey, better late than never.

A Still and a Talkie

There is a new picture and movie in the photo gallery.

Kids at Kroo Bay

Fayne

Pronounced "fine," this is a word that I'm using honestly lately as others ask "how da body," or "how are you doing?" "Fayne" takes the place of several dozen English adjectives, including fine, beautiful, okay, well, wonderful, and pretty much every positive response you can think of. Life is going well here in Sierra Leone. Though the challenges still remain, my heart is at peace and I am becoming accustomed to more of the things that were once thorns in my side. The dogs and generator sounds have entered the background as I lay my head to sleep. The heat has not been so bad of late, although it did feel quite warm today as I went for a 2.4 mile run.

We began teaching classes at Lighthouse last week. I have six students broken up evenly in two math classes. These “kids” are in their mid to late teens, but operate at a third to fourth grade math level. These kids should have learned what we’re going over years ago during the civil war. The education system must have shut down during those years. The education system here is still corrupt and in shambles. I’ve enjoyed teaching and I think (and hope) that the kids are improving as well as enjoying some of it.

I apologize for the brevity of this post; I intended it to be much longer, but I’ve spent 2.5 hours in this Internet café and it is time to go eat chicken. If I don’t leave soon, I will not have enough cash left to dine. I wish you all well. If you have emailed me, I again ask for your patience in my reply. I don’t get in front of a computer much, which is both a blessing and an annoyance. I thank you for your patience.

Have you heard of Samuel Morris?

A Liberian pastor here in Sierra Leone asked me today if I'd heard of Samuel Morris. Without speaking I got up and shook the man's hand. He made my day. You see, I was privileged to live in a dorm at Taylor University named after Sammy … two, in fact. There have been three dorms named after Sammy Morris. I lived in the second and third renditions of the dorm. Taylor is currently on the third rendition, but I'm sure that the fourth is in the planning stages. You can never be too prepared, and a TU without a Samuel Morris dorm is no TU at all.

 

Sammy Morris

 

New Pictures!

Thank you all for your comments! Please keep them coming!

I am writing from an oasis of air-conditioning called Paradise Internet Cafe. It turns out that Paradise will set you back $2 an hour. Another post should be coming a little later. There are also new pictures in the gallery. Enjoy!

Matt Sleeping

 

Washing Machine Love

I don't think this qualifies as "Possible Larium Madness," but I did dream last night that I had returned home and was hugging my stacked washer and dryer. On a related note, I did my laundry by hand yesterday.

On Comments …

Hey folks, me again. I hope that you are all having a wonderful day and enjoying the mixed arrangements of letters and punctuation that I've put up here.

I come to you today with a request. I know you know that you're out there. Please let me know that you are. I would love to have some more comments on my blog – small reminders that you're out there and that I'm not forgotten.

If you've never left a comment before, don't fret. It's easy. At the bottom of each of my posts there are links for the category of the post and to leave a comment. Just below this post there should some links such as "sierra leone | Comments (x)," where x is the number of comments people have left for the post. Click on the "Comments (x)" link and you will be presented with a form to fill out. Write something small and click the submit button.

Thank you all for checking in on me and for forgiving my grammatical mistakes. It means so much that you are journeying with me in this adventure.

Kroo Bay

We hop off the podapoda and head for the bay. Kroo Bay, that is – the largest slum in Freetown, filled with beautiful people and trash. We head down the long concrete staircase into the bay that will put us near the door of a small, one room church. But you see the steps are perilous, for a slew of children await you about 2/3 of the way down. They will latch on to you, demanding hugs and attention. If you battle through the battalion you’ll be able to step inside the church for a few more moments of calm before the joyous storm of the Kroo Bay Good News Club.

Once inside, you will help set up the benches and a semi-circle of four chairs that will serve as a triage center in about an hour. A large pan of hardboiled eggs and a box of semisweet cookies await their impending doom near the chairs. Shortly before 4 in the p.m. on this fine Saturday, the leadership group gathers to brief for the coming task. The rag-tag mixture of Asians, Caucasians, Africans, and Americans (we’re missing red, but yellow, black, & white are still precious in His sight) are given the go ahead and the door opens. A steady stream of the poorest of the poor this world has to offer enters in order of ascending height with their fingers holding their lips shut. Ol-de-lip (hold the lip) is repeated in steady fashion. Such a large grouping of quiet youth is hard to find. The little ones are packed into the front benches, the slightly bigger ones just behind, and so on. As Matt am the standard for all things big today, there are no rows of big ones.

As the room seems to shrink with the 250-300 beautiful children packed like sardines, the cantor begins clapping and singing. The children come to life, except for the few who have fallen asleep, and join in the chorus. “Higher …. Higher …. Higher oh oh oh …. is the name of Jesus higher.” The sound bellows from the little church into the bay. Singing goes on for about fifteen minutes after which the children are corralled back into their seats.

It is at this time that Noah, the amazing individual who lives at the top of the hill before the steps comes up front to remind the kids of the rules. “If you cry, you’re going home. If you want to use the bathroom, you’re going home. If you sleep, you’re going home.” The commands are shouted in love, and are mostly empty threats. You’ve seen children get three or more chances to wake up. You’ve yet to see any kids sent home Matt is thankful that he hasn’t been sent home yet …

One of the teens from Lighthouse, the other ministry we’re involved with heavily, stands up and gives a message that you still can’t quite understand with your limited knowledge of the Krio language. The message finishes, perhaps with a song or clapping activity, and then Noah steps up front again to remind the kids that if they need medical care then they are to stay after. The hardboiled eggs are then distributed and eaten on site. You can’t risk a kid saving her egg to eat later when her hunger is greater, but the egg has spoiled. The exit criteria for the Good News Club is two hands raised high to show that there is no egg remaining. Once the kids pass this test, you help usher them out the back and the front.

About forty kids remain – half with medical needs requiring pills, half requiring ointments and bandages. They are separated into these groups and treated. You decide to help out with the ointment gang and begin to walk around the other individuals who have a clue to see what you can do to help out. You begin by handing out vitamins, but that job is quickly taken away from you by one of the Lighthouse girls. You’re left to help clean wounds and bandage cuts. The bag of latex gloves seems to present a good idea, so you grab a pair and put them on in such a way to remind everyone that you are an amateur of the first degree. The gloves never do go on all the way. You grab some water and gauze to begin cleaning a wound. Next comes the Bactine, a potion you feared as a child, but these children barely even squirm when its sting hits. Perhaps this physical pain is one of the easiest things they’ve felt today, you think to yourself. The plaster (band-aid) is applied and the kid sent on his way, just in time for another kid to take his place in the chair. This child’s wound has developed into a tropical ulcer … still out of your league. You wait for Cami, the WMF field director for Sierra Leone. She’s seen dozens, if not hundreds of these. She knows just what to do … and to say. These can hurt a lot. Dead skin needs to be cut off and the ooze cleaned out with cotton swabs. The child squirms and grips Micah’s hand to help forget about the pain. After twenty minutes of cleaning, the girl’s wound is bandaged up and she takes a seat. She’ll walk back up the hill with you when you leave to make sure she knows where Noah’s house is. She’ll need to come back there every other day for the next week to get the wound cleaned. If she doesn’t, the wound will not heal and will go deeper. You afraid to ask what deeper means and how long deeper can go on until something else happens. You choose not to think about that.

After about 45 minutes, the line of children seeking help from our own little E.R. diminishes. The room is put back in order, or at least the way it was before you got there. You gather again to debrief the day as you help finish off the hardboiled eggs. “What went well? What could have gone better?” The group prays and you head back up the hill. Kroo Bay is left behind the wall erected by the government to hide it from the rest of the city. A little bit of you is left behind and the rest of you will be back next Saturday.

On Jesus

The cornerstone of my time here in Africa and during "Matt's Year of Adventure" is a man with olive-tones skin named Jesus. This little name conjures up many different emotions for many different people. Hateful, accusing, legalistic, judgemental, and fearful are just a few of the descriptors for many that proudly declare the name of Jesus. I myself have been correctly described as such from time to time. I find it strange, though, that the man himself is proclaimed to be the embodiment of love, yet we, the proclaimed followers of Jesus, so often do not do so. These instances, sadly, can easily overshadow the many times that the love Jesus embodies does display itself in this world: the sacrificial love of Mother Teresa of Calcutta, the repeated visits of one to a slum to clean the wound of a poor child, the casserole prepared for a neighbour or friend when his family is going through hard times.

The love is Jesus is offered. And just like the casserole, it can be accepted or rejected. Also, like the casserole, its existence is not debated. You see a casserole on your doorstep and think, hey, free casserole – its existence is not doubted. Though the person of Jesus comes to us as a figure from history, his existence is not generally debated. Both religious and secular historians agree that a guy named Jesus existed around the turn of the first millennium A.D., ticked some religious people off, and was killed. He had claimed to be God. He was buried and the body put under Roman guard. A few days after the burial (three by the Jewish calendar), the tomb was found empty and the Roman guard had fled, a dereliction of duty that carried the death penalty. Strangely enough, Jesus had claimed he would rise from the dead in three days time.

So we're left with these claims – Jesus I God and rose from the dead. It's pretty hard to swallow such things since they don't come around too often. But the same questions would come up today if the same claims were made. Is this guy lying? Is this guy a lunatic? Because if he is not lying and he is not crazy, then he must be telling the truth. And if he's telling the truth, well gosh, that is both wonderful and frightening all at the same time. I must choose to either accept or reject, to follow or take life on by myself while knowing the author of life offers to show me how.

As many of you already know and all of you now know, I believe this guy Jesus. This belief makes up much of the reason that I am now in Africa. The lessons I'm learning about things like love, forgiveness, understanding, adventure, risk, and sacrifice have their root in him. To fully understand what I'm doing here, please investigate this guy a little more. He offers the same lessons to everyone, whether you're in Africa or Atlanta. If you'd like some recommendations on where to look, please ask.

Regardless of what you believe about Jesus, I do ask that you keep coming back here. Your support of me means so much, whether you're reading about, emailing, thinking about, or praying for me. I am thankful that you have joined me on this journey. Thank you.